I have a friend who is in extreme like with this woman she attends church with. They became friends quickly, they have hung out, spent the night at each others home and have just been kicking it. My friend is a lesbian and the woman in question is not. However, at one point in their interactions, they had sex and immediately thereafter the girl started to become distant. The two of them still talk and hang
out from time to time, but their interactions are not the same…so says my friend.
As time has passed, the girl came to my friend and told her that she is really conflicted about the relationship the two of them had formed and when they had sex, she felt that she had committed a huge sin and she is convicted by her actions. She went on to say that she would like to remain friends, but it can’t be a romantic friendship due to her relationship with God. My friend accepted that but her acceptance does not change the way she feels about this woman. Especially since the woman still makes time for her and spends time with her and is overly affectionate when she shouldnt be…since they are just supposed to be buddies. Needless to say, my friend is conflicted.
If you were in a situation like this, how would you handle it?
