Tag Archives: Relationships

It’s Been 8 Years

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8 years ago today I met a woman who I was immediately smitten with. She was smart, kind, genuine, sweet and super cute & sexy. We became fast friends and after a few months we were an item. Time has since flown by and I have no regrets making the choice to share my life with her. Now don’t get me wrong, our relationship has had some major ups and downs which were mainly caused by me…but overall the last 8 years have been worth all the effort. We have laughed and cried together and have managed to make it this far. Today I applaud this lady: who has loved me, stood by me and given me the best of herself—she deserves the best that I can give her. I don’t know what the future holds for the two of us, but one thing I do know is that she will ALWAYS be #1 in my heart.

Happy 8th anniversary to you!

What Do You Do?

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What do you do when the life you have known for so long ceases to exist? Do you accept it and move on or do you fight to preserve what you have? Change is inevitable, but change hurts bad when it is the result of poor choices and actions. When there are no more I’m sorry’s and the forgive me’s hold no more weight–what’s left? What do you do?

Smile

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Things that Make Me Smile:

  1. Knowing that all things work together for good
  2. Understanding that I can do all things through Christ
  3. Knowing that I am loved
  4. Having someone in my life that shares my sense of humor
  5. Her hugs
  6. Her smile
  7. Random acts of kindness
  8. Strength in difficult situations
  9. Believing that there is good in everyone
  10. Being accepted for who I am

What Would You Do

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I have a friend who is in extreme like with this woman she attends church with. They became friends quickly, they have hung out, spent the night at each others home and have just been kicking it. My friend is a lesbian and the woman in question is not. However, at one point in their interactions, they had sex and immediately thereafter the girl started to become distant. The two of them still talk and hang out from time to time, but their interactions are not the same…so says my friend.

As time has passed, the girl came to my friend and told her that she is really conflicted about the relationship the two of them had formed and when they had sex, she felt that she had committed a huge sin and she is convicted by her actions. She went on to say that she would like to remain friends, but it can’t be a romantic friendship due to her relationship with God. My friend accepted that but her acceptance does not change the way she feels about this woman. Especially since the woman still makes time for her and spends time with her and is overly affectionate when she shouldnt be…since they are just supposed to be buddies. Needless to say, my friend is conflicted.

If you were in a situation like this, how would you handle it?

Tuesday Inspiration

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I consider myself a very spiritual person. Anytime I have a problem or an issue, the very first thing that I do is pray. Prayer is important to me as it gives me structure and balance in my life. I have not always been this way, however life has a way of making you fall in line with what is right for you; if you listen and pay attention. The older I get, the less I spend time worrying about things that I have no control over. I have learned that it is a epic waste of time to contemplate how to change or fix a situation that you are not the author of.  Prayer is not an easy thing to rely on at first simply because it takes blind faith and belief that a situation or circumstance will work itself out. People tend to have issues letting go of their problems…you have to let go of the reins of control and allow God to take over. Not many of us are willing to give up control like that. So we pray, turn our issues over to God and as soon as we get off of our knees, we pick the problems right back up. I have been GUILTY of this.

So here is a question, if you’re in constant turmoil and worrying, why pray at all?  Is it just something you do because it’s tradition or do you truly seek God for peace and understanding?  Forming a real relationship with God provides a sense of security, revelation and knowledge. It is impossible for doubt and faith to exist in the same body.  For example, have you ever found yourself in a conversation saying, “I know I should be stronger than this, I have faith BUT, I’m human too and sometimes life just gets too hard? Our mind can sometimes be our worst weapon against self; however, the fact that we can dismiss negativity by adding positives allows us to be over comers in our lives.

As you are dealing with personal issues and such, it’s important to remember that no matter how you feel or what you are going through or what you are thinking right now: God has a plan. Just seek him for an understanding.

Question of the Day

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The Question: You marry someone. During the course of your marriage your spouse get a debilitating disease such as Alzheimer’s. Would you divorce the person and move on with your life?

My answer: You took vows, till death do you part and in sickness and health. So if you honor the vow you took, you should stay with the person and not tip out when they need you most. 

Pat Robertson (we all know this Christian right-wing extremist) says otherwise. Check out this video:

I have to say I am surprised that this guy would advocate leaving your spouse. I mean Christians are all about marriage and family, so much so that they say gays and lesbians getting married would destroy the union of marriage, but its ok to dip out on your wife/husband if they get deathly ill. #MAKESNOSENSE

What do you think, do you leave, do you stay? What say you?

 

 

A Corny but True…Love Poem

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Sugar is sweet and so are you.
You probably question if I love you: I do!

Things aren’t always the best, but they are great when we are aligned together…hugs, kisses, endearing glances and the oh so good “whatever”

There was me, then there was you and finally there was us…and us is nice.

My honeybun,
my agave nectar; you are.
Near or far, you are forever embedded deep in my heart.

I love you….